See The World Through A Rapist's Eyes For Safety's Sake

These advices were gathered as a result of interviews with a group of rapists and date rapists in prison. Here’s what they said they looked for in potential victim as well as some interesting facts that might help to keep you more safe and secure:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly . Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse, ordoing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack &rape in the early morning, between 5:00a.m. and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. Number two: is office parking lots/garages. Number three: is public restrooms.
6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage! or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: "I can't believe it is so cold out here," "we're in for a bad winter." Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you , hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for ! an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can byoutsmarting them If you are grabbed around the! waist f rom behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he's out of there.

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior,don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!! You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

How I Intend To Earn 150K Naira(approx $1000) by Spending 60K Naira (approx $300)

Hello friends, i have been tinkering over this idea for some period and i suddenly got inspiration this morning when i once again read about the story of the preacher some decades ago needing a million dollars to build a school.He called the newspaper company that he will be preaching a sermon titled "What i would do with a million dollars".He invited some press men to his church on a particular sunday.He preached the sermon and within 36hrs he got the money. The man said he has been thinking about this for almost 2 years but he came to a conclusion that he was going to get the money within a week and the ideas came and he got the money within 36hrs after he took action.

Now about my own story,i have been looking for ways to get this money for over 2months now. I intend to use the 60k to start an online business called affiliate marketing. I have a coach who earns some very comfortable amount weekly from this same business and i have approached him and i told him i wanted to learn the business and he told me i would need 60k. His own training fee is about half of that money and the rest 30k is for promotion and adverts and getting the tools i will need to succeed in this business.I may not have given a total breakdown of how the money will be spent but here's a little breakdown of what i will get;
- I will have my first site set up for me using the exact simple affiliate plan we will  be teaching you.
- I will get a list of niche market that is carefully researched and analyze to choose from.
- I will get a domain registered and hosted for you.
- I will get a presell page written for you.
- I will get 5 extra contents published to the site.
- I will get backlinks from his private blog network.
- I will get a press release written for me to announce your site.
- I will get the press release submitted too.
- At the end, I don't just get trainned but get a complete website site up for me in first week of  training. That way I will have something to experiment with.

Now that's not all i will get, i will get much more, I so much believe in this business because i know so many people who are doing the same business and who are financially free today.

After i have learned this business well, my goal is to train 50 people to do this business too, to be self employed ,cos i have a dream to help people become financially free. I want people to be free from the shackles of poverty. I see many people online that are looking for jobs or needing small capital to start business.I want to help.This is the major aim of this.

So if you have 60 thousand naira or 300$ and you are willing to help me to trade with it. I will return it to you with atleast 30% profit at the end of  6weeks.Plus i will also give you some special gifts, cos i know one of the laws of success is not just to keep your words but to also to give back more than the person has paid for.

Oh finally how do you get to me, leave a comment here or just send me an email at oladayo88@gmail.com .

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